Here I am giving some nice and cool tips for the girls for dating.
Always look great, whatever your income. Gorgeous hair and some lipstick and wearing rags will still turn his head. You have the advantage, you are the girl. Look your best as you could meet a potential Mr. Right anywhere at any time.
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Never reveal information you don't have to. An enigmatic girl drives boy wild.
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Keep dates brief but your guy interested. Less is always more.
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Try and stay in shape and involve some fitness regime at a gym. However much you hate it, your Mr. Right loves your body as much as your mind.
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Let your guy pay. If he is interested, he is interested enough to ensure you eat well and get home safely in a cab.
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Ensure you receive flowers, if he doesn't know what a florist is, dump him.
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Never ever sleep with a guy until he has fallen for you. Sex early in your dating game plan will ruin everything.
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Always keep a guy waiting and never turn up early. It is a lady's perogative.
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Never be available when he wants you to be. Never be at the end of a phone when he calls and always let him leave a message or two first before replying.
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If he is available Tuesday, you are available Thursday.
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Weekend shopping trips with girlfriends are sacred and not available for dates.
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Keep your man standing on quicksand by shifting landmarks and goalposts constantly.
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Ensure you are a good kisser. Men will walk away if you cannot kiss. Practise on a mirror if you have to.
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Never ever talk about previous boyfriends and particularly their prowess in the bedroom. The number of ex boyfriends is your business only.
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Never pre suppose anything about your date until you choose to know him better. You cannot always tell by looking
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If any man shows the slightest signs of possessiveness or insecurity run like the wind. Life is too short for boys.
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If his shoes or hygiene are a disgrace dump him
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Never talk too much about your father and how your date measures up in comparison.
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Never ever come across as too available or too desperate, he will run a mile. He is the one doing the chasing remember.
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If the guy in the corner is gorgeous go and get him and create the need in him for you. Never wait for men to come to you because you may watch him leave with someone else.
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You may well have all the bodily functions of a man, just try not to demonstrate them early on.
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If you are wanting a child, don't mention it on the first few dates.
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Never ever criticize his mother unless you want to remain single.
Many of us make such mistakes and “give up” thinking things would get better in future or when time comes. Its wrong “nothing will work for us until we work for it”.
Understand Their Background
The first and the foremost thing for a good relationship is to understand each others backgrounds as both of them are from different families, cultures, traditions, experiences and habits. Both should be well aware of this and respect each others backgrounds and habits to keep harmony in their lives. Which Ramesh and saritha never tried to do so.
Give and Take
Any relationship has to follow “Give and Take” formula. I believe to get what you wanted from your partner, try giving the same to him/her first and see how it works. If Saritha wanted Ramesh to respect her opinions, Ideas and feelings she could have initiated that first, then things would have been better for her.
Communicate
Communication plays a key role in maintaining good relationship. Its always good to express yourself clearly and openly. Never expect the person in front of you would know what's on your mind or your expectation. Just say it!
Appreciate Each Other
Both should consciously appreciate and help each other to maintain the balance in the family. Ultimately the fact remains that both of them need each other to live peacefully.
Expectation
Expectation from your partner should be clear, genuine and realistic. You should always check whether he is able to understand what you are expecting or whether your partner is capable and comfortable with your expectation.. Ramesh wanted to play safe, Saritha always wanted to stretch a bit. However they never expressed it clearly.
Behavior
Every person is Unique and different to the other for their own experiences and situations in life. The Behavior, likes and dislikes would mostly depend on their experiences. So before taking it into consideration or judging your partner's behavior just give a thought that “I would be a totally different person for him/her or maybe he/she has some problem with my behavior“.
Reaction
There's a saying “It is not what happens to you but How you react to it, that matters”. Our life is all about our own reactions. So act well and react less for the incidents which makes you frustrated. There's no point stretching the thread until it breaks.
Commitment
Though both have different roles to play personally or professionally they should have a common goal for the family. For that both need to understand and work towards that goal. Once the goal is set and the vision is clear commitment comes automatically. Ramesh and Saritha were always going in two different directions.
Habit
Ideally in relationship to sustain the bonding and enthusiasm, the couple should develop certain habits and interests which can add more fun to the life. Like drinking coffee daily together , going for a walk or doing gardening together. Such things make living more memorable.
Space
Another important aspect for good relationship is maintaining individual's space. Both should have their own space irrespective of their closeness. Every individual will have their own interests, passions, hobbies and talents. Both should respect and appreciate each others interests and talents to have a healthy family.
The motivation to do all the above comes from the amount you love your partner!!!