Many of us make such mistakes and “give up” thinking things would get better in future or when time comes. Its wrong “nothing will work for us until we work for it”.

Understand Their Background

The first and the foremost thing for a good relationship is to understand each others backgrounds as both of them are from different families, cultures, traditions, experiences and habits. Both should be well aware of this and respect each others backgrounds and habits to keep harmony in their lives. Which Ramesh and saritha never tried to do so.

Give and Take

Any relationship has to follow “Give and Take” formula. I believe to get what you wanted from your partner, try giving the same to him/her first and see how it works. If Saritha wanted Ramesh to respect her opinions, Ideas and feelings she could have initiated that first, then things would have been better for her.

Communicate

Communication plays a key role in maintaining good relationship. Its always good to express yourself clearly and openly. Never expect the person in front of you would know what's on your mind or your expectation. Just say it!

Appreciate Each Other

Both should consciously appreciate and help each other to maintain the balance in the family. Ultimately the fact remains that both of them need each other to live peacefully.

Expectation

Expectation from your partner should be clear, genuine and realistic. You should always check whether he is able to understand what you are expecting or whether your partner is capable and comfortable with your expectation.. Ramesh wanted to play safe, Saritha always wanted to stretch a bit. However they never expressed it clearly.

Behavior

Every person is Unique and different to the other for their own experiences and situations in life. The Behavior, likes and dislikes would mostly depend on their experiences. So before taking it into consideration or judging your partner's behavior just give a thought that “I would be a totally different person for him/her or maybe he/she has some problem with my behavior“.

Reaction

There's a saying “It is not what happens to you but How you react to it, that matters”. Our life is all about our own reactions. So act well and react less for the incidents which makes you frustrated. There's no point stretching the thread until it breaks.

Commitment

Though both have different roles to play personally or professionally they should have a common goal for the family. For that both need to understand and work towards that goal. Once the goal is set and the vision is clear commitment comes automatically. Ramesh and Saritha were always going in two different directions.

Habit

Ideally in relationship to sustain the bonding and enthusiasm, the couple should develop certain habits and interests which can add more fun to the life. Like drinking coffee daily together , going for a walk or doing gardening together. Such things make living more memorable.

Space

Another important aspect for good relationship is maintaining individual's space. Both should have their own space irrespective of their closeness. Every individual will have their own interests, passions, hobbies and talents. Both should respect and appreciate each others interests and talents to have a healthy family.

The motivation to do all the above comes from the amount you love your partner!!!

There is a right time for every task you perform especially in your love life. We have to wait for the right time to come to perform any task. Don’t be too late that you have to feel sorry for it. Many people often wonder when the right time to tell someone you love them is. Do you wait after so many months of dating? The minute you feel that rush of emotions? Is it a magic moment where you just “know”?

There are different thinking and opinions about these three words of different peoples. Some people will say that if you say the words “I love you” too much, they lose their meaning. Some says that these three words are the starting of the good day. If you think that you are ready to say “I Love You” to someone then consider these important tips.

Don’t confuse love with lust: It is very easy to think that I am in love but in reality you don’t have “true love” just yet. So feel the difference between the two and wait until it changes into a True Love.

Make sure you really know each other: Some people know each other very quickly, some takes time. The more you know about a person the more you can be sure your feelings are real.

Be sure they love you back: Some people may feel nervous or flustered if you tell them you love them too soon. Some say why you waited so long to say this. So be sure that the feelings you have about him , he/ she also have the same feelings about you.

Say it only if you mean it: Saying “I love you” should mean you are ready for a serious and exclusive relationship with someone. So be sure before saying it that you are really in love.

Remember actions speak louder than words: Only just saying “I Love You” is not enough for a true love. Holding hands, doing a favor for the person, show them you’re thinking of them, listening intently to them, or enjoying their favorites hobbies together are all ways of showing your love.

A three word sentence made from the word Love, “I Love You”, which keep the world going round. There are very different meanings and senses in which this three word sentence is said to someone. We look for it, most of our waking hours – hoping, waiting or hoping it to guide us to that one true “love” of our lives.

Just imagine that how many times you have said I love You to the person who have stepped into our lives with some magic. Why do we say “I love You “– what do we mean by it really? Do we say because it’s the normal thing to say, because for the sake of saying it only, because we have nothing else to say or is it that the words are music to the ears of that other person. So, the main thing arises out of here that why do we say I Love You?

Before this first we have to understand the meaning of Love, According to me, it is strictly a low of warm energy that bonds two people in a sharing and common relationship, on a single platform. Love is something that grows inside us. It does not grow on trees that you pick at random when you want it. To be able to get love, we must learn how to give it first.

Never expect love from something, if you don’t have love for it your self. Can you let go of your ego, pride and insecurities, and be ready just to give? Means are you really ready for falling in love. Then comes the question that do you know what true love is? Think about it – do you really mean to say what you say, when you confess to some one “I love You”.

It has no fixed value and there is no fixed quantity of love which a person can give away. So, the main thing is that, love someone for the way they are, you can’t change someone to be the way you want them to be.